Ohtobbad;n8763 said:
. I should have done it before marriage, I suspect the design faze will be the toughest LOL.
You sure got that right!...Might actually be easier on you, to buy a new house. Least for a few years, as there will eventually be a list of, "things I want to change" from the wife.
When we first bought the place we are in now, "everything is just perfect...Love it just the way it is", sort of thing.
10 years later, I have been handed a long list of "things that could be better".
Just yesterday, it was, "We need a new light fixture above the stove".(which I find very odd, as I do absolutely all the cooking).
My reply was, "Just add it to your list dear, so you can give it to whoever you hire after I die, to do".
So then she say's, "So your planning on going before me?".
I said, "Hell yeah, I want to have some free time before you get there"
She says, OK, but when you get there, no sex with anyone"
I replied, "So, the same as here you mean?"
And that was the end to that conversation..